Like many churches, we love singing at The Belfrey in York! It’s basic and central to who we are and what we do when we gather for worship. In fact a recent survey of church members showed that it was the top reason people initially came to our church – they were drawn by the worship and singing. So this Covid-19 season of not being able to sing when we gather is especially hard for us.
But it’s not impossible. That’s why over the last few weeks, as we’ve met in church masked and in small, socially distanced gatherings, I’ve kept saying: ‘Please don’t sing, but please do worship.’
For many, that’s a real challenge, because they can no longer sing their heart out and praise God as they desire. But in the same way that lovers find ways to express devotion even when they’re separated, so the restrictions of this season stretch us to find fresh opportunities for adoration of our glorious God!
So, let’s get really practical. What can we do? How can we worship without singing? Here are ten top tips that I commend to you. They’re all good, biblical ways to worship that people have practiced over the centuries.
So here we go. Ten ways to worship without singing.
1. Use your mind & heart.
Instead of singing the words, in your head register, read and hear the words. Then let them go from your head to your heart, so we end up doing what is advocated in Ephesians 5:19: ‘make music in your heart to the Lord.’
2. Use your breath.
We can mouth the words, even whispering them very quietly under our breath in our masks. We can let our breath unite with the breath of God’s Spirit, and know his presence. If you’re able to pray in a God-given prayer language (sometimes known as ‘tongues’) then quietly pray in this way too. In doing this, we’re fulfilling the call of Psalm 150:6: ‘let everything that has breath praise the Lord!’
3. Use your legs.
When someone we respect enters the room, most people do one of two things with their legs. One is to use them to stand. We stand to honour them, like God’s people were urged to do in worship in Nehemiah 9:5. The other is to use them to kneel. We show humility by bowing the knee in reverence, like they did in 2 Chronicles 7:3. Of course there is a time and place to sit on our backsides, but most people in Scripture, unless they’re old or infirm, get off their posterior to worship. To do so, we need to use our legs.
4. Use your hands.
After our mouths, the next most commonly-used tool for communication is our hands. Just watch people talking in public, and you know this is true. That’s why it often surprises me that many followers of Jesus fail to use their hands very much in worship. And yet the Bible encourages us to do just this, speaking of ‘lifting hands’ (Ps. 141:2; 1 Tim. 2:8), ‘spreading out hands’ (Ps. 143:6) and ‘opening hands’ (Deut. 15:8) to God. If you’ve never used your hands in worship in this way, now is surely the time to explore this, lifting the name of Jesus higher and higher.
5. Use your feet.
Given that we’re meant to keep distanced from people, we can’t move around too much when we’re gathered for worship at present. But we can keep our feet on the floor and sway. Jewish worshippers often do this, imaging themselves swaying to and fro like a candle flame in the breeze of God’s Spirit, and we can do the same. And of course we can use our feet to dance. There is much in the Bible on dancing (eg. Ps 149:3), although very few churches seem to practice it these days. For many years I have felt that the Lord is calling the church in the UK to become more of a dancing church. However I often get embarrassed dancing, as I know many others do too! I suspect I just have to get over that, and let my feet express praise that in the past I’ve left to my mouth.
6. Use your fingers.
God gave us fingers to aid creativity: for making, building, writing, drawing and for all sorts of crafting. So why not use your fingers creatively in worship in these unusual days? That could mean bringing a notepad and pen, and drawing something, or writing something to express your praise. Or you could use your phone or ipad in a similar way. If you do this, to stay safe, don’t pass your creative offerings to others, and make sure you take home what you create.
7. Use your ears.
With less distractions from our own voices, and from others around us, we should be all the more aware of the sounds of worship which will mainly come from the front – from those leading. So let’s ensure we’re using our ears well for listening: listening to the words, the prayers and the praises, and as we do so let’s be attentive to the prophetic voice of the Holy Spirit who wants to ‘strengthen, encourage and comfort’ us (1 Cor. 14:3).
8. Use your eyes.
As well as using your ears to listen, open your eyes to see. Look at the signs and symbols in the building and let them enhance your worship. Most are there for a purpose. So be aware of space and shadows, of colour and candles, of pictures and people. If you’re in a building you know well, ask the Lord to help you look beyond the familiar and see things in a fresh way. Use what you see to cause you to be thankful and draw close to God.
9. Use your smile.
As well as not singing, we’re not meant to have much conversation inside church, and certainly not in groups of more than six. This doesn’t mean we stop being church family, but it does mean we will all need to work harder to welcome people, to create community and to show kindness to each other. An obvious way to do this, is simply to smile. Even though you’re wearing a mask, make an effort to smile at those around you, and supplement it with a wave. Smile and show those around you that you’re pleased they’re there! I suspect our smiley greetings will be key worship tools in this season.
10. Use your finances.
Finally, as well as giving our thanks, our praise, our prayers and our love to the Lord, we’re also called to give him our tithes and offerings (see, eg. 1 Cor. 16:2). Giving financially – either by direct debit, or at a contactless giving station – is another important way of worshipping, even though we can’t sing. God receives our finances as worship, when we give from a thankful and cheerful heart (2 Cor. 9:7). As we worship with our money, so we can expect the Lord will continue to look after us, so we can give again. Such is his overflowing love (Luke 6:38).
So there are all sorts of ways we can worship without singing in these extended coronavirus days. And if it’s a Holy Communion Service I would add Use your Taste – as we eat the bread and allow our sense of taste to help us be thankful for the Cross and draw close to God.
So seize the opportunities to worship differently. Let’s be courageous and creative. Brave and bold. Prayerful and playful.
If we can learn now to worship together in many of these ten ways and more, then our worship post-coronavirus, rather than being frailer, weaker and sicklier, will in fact be much deeper, stronger and healthier.
So please don’t sing, but do worship.
Hallelujah,amen and amen! Thank you Matthew 🤗.
Matthew this is great and really helpful. Thank you.
Thank you for writing this! Can we translate it in Dutch for our church?
Yes – of course. May it encourage many 😀
For many, worship has been literally synonymous with singing. We had “times of worship” during a service, when it was understood we would stand and sing. And then, apparently, the worship would and and the service would proceed. So thanks for this article.
A friend from the Presbyterian tradition used to call his congregation to worship the Lord on the singing of a hymn – and then to worship the Lord through the offering, and then to worship through the words of the sermon. Worship is much broader than we sometimes think.
Perhaps, and this may be new and a little scary for some, now may be a time to rediscover worship through Liturgy? After all, it’s a sorry of poem of worship, a spoken hymn of praise to God. And, perhaps most importantly in a time when we can’t sing together, a form of worship in which we can all join as the body of Christ – even those who can’t sing a note.
One of the most profound times I have known of being lost in total wonder silent praise and love, was after a Taize service on the Advebt retreat at Lee Abbey in 2011. I just knelt before the centrepiece cross in total silence perhaps for 20 mins. I gazed on Him and He gazed on me.
Also you can use your fingers by pretending to play the music you are listening to on an instrument. If you don’t play one, you can pretend (pick the ‘I wish I’d learned to play xxx when I was young’ one) and there will be NO WRONG NOTES. Not that the Lord would mind even if there were.
Thanks Matthew – really helpful blog – have shared it with my church family – hope that is OK!
Of course Nick. Greetings to you and yours from rainy Yorkshire! 😀
Dear Matthew, Have you not thought of humming to the music behind our masks? We went to a friend’s funeral a few weeks ago at Acomb Baptist. There were only 3 hymns, very well known, i.e. “Oh Lord my God, when I in awesome wonder”, “The Lord’s My Shepherd, I’ll not want” and “And can it be that I should gain”. The minister had taken the music and songs from off a CD? maybe which was recorded from Keswick so that we heard the music and singing and we are able to hum to them behind our masks. It made us feel more part of the service. Just an idea. Jan
On Wed, Sep 30, 2020 at 10:10 PM Discipleship Blog wrote:
> Matthew Porter posted: ” Like many churches, we love singing at The > Belfrey in York! It’s basic and central to who we are and what we do when > we gather for worship. In fact a recent survey of church members showed > that it was the top reason people initially came to our church – ” >
Hi Jan and thanks for commenting. As you probably know guidelines presently say nothing about humming although I know some churches are encouraging it. There is much we can do much even though we’re not allowed to sing 😶 🙂